I once was dead, but now I am forever.

Second Sunday of easter - april 7, 2013
I once was dead, but
now I am forever.
Revelation: 1:18
The Basilica Parish of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary
Southampton, NY
Welcome to the Basilica Parish of the
Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary
Daily Mass
Mon. Wed. Thurs. Fri. at 12 noon
Tue. at 8:00 am
First Saturday 8:00 am
Weekend Masses
Saturday: 5 PM
Sunday: 8 AM, 9:30 AM,
11 AM, 12:30 PM (in Spanish)
and 5 PM
Reconciliation
Saturday: 4 PM - 4:45 PM
Ministry to the Sick
For communion at home or Anointing
please contact the Parish Office.
Baptism
Please contact the Parish Office
to schedule an appointment.
Pastoral Team:
Rev. Michael A. Vetrano, Pastor
In Residence: Rev. Msgr. William J. Gill
John Moran, Deacon
Carl Sanfilippo, Deacon
Sr. Mary Assunta Boyle, RSM, Religious Education
Suzanne Marchisella, Parish & Cemetery Secretary
Jo Ann Morse, Director of Music
Bill Kunzer, Plant and Facilities Manager
Parish Leadership:
Contact Us
Finance Committee
Fred Weinfurt (trustee)
Pat Jordan (trustee)
Jay Diesing
John Neknez
Parish Office
Pastoral Council
In formation
Liturgy
Jack Hanlon
Consolation
Sr. Barbara McKenna, RSM
P: 631-283-0097, option 0
F: 631-283-3836
W: www.shjmbasilica.org
E: parishoffice@shjmbasilica.org
M-F 9 AM - 4:30 PM
Weekend by appointment
Fr. Mike Vetrano
E: pastor@shjmbasilica.org
Religious Education Office
P: 631-283-0508
E: bassuntarsm@gmail.com
Marriage
Arranged at least six months in
advance, please call the Parish Office.
Becoming A Catholic
We welcome those who would like to
become Catholic and adult Catholics
who have never received formal
religious education and/or sacraments.
Contact the Parish Office.
Human Resources of the Hamptons — Help for those in Need
The Human Resources Program volunteers reach out to meet the temporal needs of the
elderly, the housebound, and the poor of our parish and community, Our parish Care for
the Caregiver Program delivers hot meals to families in need of this kind of help on
Wednesday evenings. Call the Human Resources Office for information and assistance.
Our Lady of Hamptons School
Sister Kathy Schlueter, CSJ
160 North Main Street
Southampton, New York 11968
P: 631-283-9140
E: olh@hamptons.com
Human Resources of the
Hamptons
Maryann Tupper, Director
P: 631-283-6415
E: maryanntuper.hrp@hamptons.com
Apostolado Hispano
Rev. Steve Grozio
631-283-4379
Vincentian Fathers
631-283-9647
BASILICA PARISH OF SACRED HEARTS OF JESUS & MARY
Second Sunday of Easter :: April 7, 2013
Readings: Acts 5:12-16; Rv 1:9-11a; 12-13, 17-19; Jn 20:19-31
Mission Statement: We are a Eucharistic centered people, who by following Christ’s teaching,
join together to love and serve those in spiritual and physical need in our community.
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Liturgical Ministers Schedule
Saturday, April 13 5:00 PM Father Dahm
SERVERS
M. Donovan, A. Wesnofske,
L & C Yastrzemski
E.M.’S
M. Adamczyk, S. McCulley, M. McDonald
LECTORS
O. Mahoney, K. Rothwell
Sunday, April 14 8 AM Father Kiernan
SERVERS
Ambrose Bros., K. Culver, I & L Martin
E.M.’S
T. Cavallaro, J & C Mottern, M. Muller
LECTORS
M. Mackey, S. Wilson
GREETERS K. Moffa
SERVERS
E.M.’S
LECTORS
GREETERS
9:30 AM Father Vetrano
L. Arresta, P. Bellucci, V. Ching-Roa,
M. Terry
G. Arresta, J. Diesing, M. King,
N. McCulley, J. Neknez
J. Hanlon, K. King-Bush
J. McCulley
LECTORS
GREETERS
11 AM Visitor
May Bros., O’Connor Sisters,
W & M Bellucci
S. Adelante, T. Alegria, J. Costa,
V. Grattan, L. Robins
G. Bauer, P. Jordan
C. Brown, C. Butler
SERVERS
E.M.’S
LECTOR
5 PM Visitor
C. Caulfield, H. Reyes
L. DeRobertis, K. Maple, K. Rossi
S. Nielsen, S. O’Brien
SERVERS
E.M.’S
ALTAR MINISTRY
ALTARS: — April—M. McClain, M. Nugent
ALTAR CLOTHS: G. Bauer
HAND LINENS - April 8-14—N. McCulley
Mass Intentions for the Week of April 8-14
Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
12:00
8:00
12:00
12:00
12:00
5 PM
8:00
9:30
11:00
12:30
5 PM
Patricia Ellard Brown
Jane Pollicino
Trevor Botelero
Lonnie Abbey
Leo Campbell
Sandra Dewitt
William L. Zaluski, Jr., William &
Harriet Zaluski & Barbara Corwith
People of the Parish
Patricia Ellard Brown, Joseph Votto,
Jack Rist, Ruth F. Wilson
Mass in Spanish
Carlos Leon Moranchel
Weekly Memorials
To donate the flowers on the altar or bread and wine
offered at Mass each week, please contact the parish
office.
Financial Realities and Stewardship
SOUTHAMPTON HOSPITAL
April 7—N. McCulley
April 14—J. McCarthy
HAMPTON CENTER
April 7—C & J Mottern
April 14—J. McCarthy, A. Beatty
Rosary—April 11—P. Raynor
The Easter Sunday collection to date is $26,087.00.
The second collection for support of our ministries
was $4,641.00.
Thank you all for your generosity
in our Easter and special collections.
Pastor’s Letter
Our Ministries Appeal
April 6/7
Dear Parish Family:
My first Holy Week here at Sacred Hearts was nothing short of amazing. The music was beautiful
as Jo Ann Morse and her choirs and musicians led us in prayer. Our lectors, servers, ministers, ushers,
and decorators worked together as a true community of faith. Even the weather cooperated! I felt truly
lifted and carried by the energy of this parish community. We blessed and were blessed by the many
people who came to celebrate the dying and rising of Jesus at our parish.
Holy Week also helps me to recognize how we are part of a larger church here on Long Island. I
always look forward to the Chrism Mass at St. Agnes Cathedral. Almost all of the priests and deacons
of our diocese attend and I think it helps us to recognize how our individual parishes and ministries are
connected.
This week I would like you to think about one way that we support this larger church that is the
Diocese of Rockville Centre. Our Catholic Ministries Appeal is an annual effort to support many
ministries on which our parishes depends. Here on the East End we are blessed with an excellent
Catholic High School, McGann-Mercy, that many of our students attend. The Bishop Gerald Ryan
Center in Hampton Bays does wonderful work and has served a number of Sacred Hearts parishioners.
Of course there is also the education of our priests and deacons, programs of religious education and
formation of ministers, to mention just some of the services we receive from our diocese.
Our parish appeal goal is $51,400 which is a very reachable goal for us. Last year we were very
close, having raised about 90 percent of our goal. If you have never contributed to the appeal before,
this would be a wonderful time to begin. If you have been supporting the appeal, I hope you will
continue your commitment. Pledges to the appeal are payable over 12 months so even a gift of $10 a
month will make a huge difference in reaching our goal. Besides doing our part for our diocese there is
another great incentive to reach our goal. Eighty percent of contributions over our goal are returned to
the parish for our own ministries.
This week our committee will be at Mass to take your pledge. The Catholic Ministries Appeal
supports important works in religious formation, education, and social service. I hope you will
consider being a part.
Sincerely yours in Christ
Rev. Michael A. Vetrano
Presented by
Adult Faith
Formation
Sunday, April 14, 2013
2:30 pm
Basilica of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus & Mary
Parish Hall – Auditorium
$10.00
Please join us for an afternoon tea,
sandwiches, desserts, raffles, and
spiritual fun for men & women of all ages.
Reservations are required.
Please call before April 12:
Noreen Conroy @ 287-9652
Looking for Helpers for the Angel Tea
Would you like to:
1. Make some small tea sandwiches 2. Bake some mini-sized dessert
3. Help set the tables with linens and china on Friday, April 12 at 4:30 pm
4. Help set up chairs on Friday, April 12 at 4:30 pm 5. Help with set-up or clean-up
Please call contact Kathy Jordan at
283-1538 or kathrynjjordan@yahoo.com
Music at the Basilica Series
“Sing and Make Music from Your Heart
to the Lord”
MUSIC AT THE BASLICA
Ephesians 5:19
Our music at the Basilica series continues this
Spring. Our next event features:
Soprano Ashley Bell
Accompanied by
Pianist Chao Liao
Saturday April 13
7:00 PM
in the Basilica
Donations accepted: $10
Champagne reception immediately following concert.
Easter Flower Donations
More Easter Flower Donations:
In loving memory of:
Given by:
Andrew Reister
Michael Lenahan
Deceased members of Lynch & Emilita families
Deceased members of the Schildknecht family
Mottern & Vinci Families
Hanlon & Fannon Families
Douglas & William Borucke
John Verderber
James Brown
Ethel & Fred Weinfurt
Kehl & Slodki Families
Paul Bauer
Ernie Wilson
Alonzo Abbey
William Calvert
Grattan Family
Sheerin & Ahearn Families
Stubelek & Kupidloski Families
John Fox
D’Aiuto & Purrazzella Families
William L. Zaluski, Jr., William & Harriet Zaluski,
Barbara Corwith, Eloise Warner, Susan Spinzia
Jerome J. Bollo
Arlene Cuccia & Philip Masi
Ann Navan
James, Kathleen, Patricia & Ella Lynch
Joseph & Laurette Reilly
John, Theresa & Eugene Callaghan
Jeff Grattan
George Stolin
Mr. & Mrs. George Reister
Mr. & Mrs. Patrick Lenahan
Tim & Joan Lynch
Edward A. Schildknecht
Charles & Giovanna Mottern
Mr. & Mrs. John Hanlon
John & Joyce Borucke
Anna Verderber
Mr. & Mrs. Robert Brown
Fred J. Weinfurt
Mary Slodki
Amelia Bauer
Barbara Wilson
Patricia Abbey
Nancy Calvert
Virginia Grattan
Patricia & Daniel Sheerin
John & Tina Kupidloski
his wife, Sandy & family
Mr. & Mrs. Giuseppe Purrazzella
Joan Zaluski
Grace Bollo
Mr. & Mrs. John J. Cuccia & fam
John Navan
their family
Mr. & Mrs. Richard Reilly\
Edward Callaghan
Ginny Grattan
Diane & William Sadowski
For the Intentions of:
A special intention
Terrence L. Magee
Knight Family
Mrs. Peter Salm
Mrs. Maria Sabia
Mr. & Mrs. Douglas Andrea
Mr. & Mrs. Edward Corrigan
Would you like to become a Lector or Extraordinary Minister of
the Eucharist?
Training sessions will be starting soon. If you are interested please call Father Mike at 283-0097 or
email him at pastor@shjmbasilica.org.
Southampton Senior Idol
The Southampton High Class of 2014 is hosting a Senior Idol this spring.
Local senior citizens are invited to come out and audition. Participants can
sing, dance or whatever their talent may be!
“Vatican II: Looking Back, Looking Forward”
Sponsored by the Institute for Study of Religion of Saint Joseph’s College, Patchogue. Speakers:
Auxiliary Bishop Emeritus Emil Wcela, Monsignor John Strynkowski, Dr. Phyllis Zagano, and
Keynote speaker—Dr. James McCartin of Fordham University.
Friday, April 12th 9:30—2:00 PM. $20 registration includes lunch.
RSVP required. Please contact Dr. Paul Ginnetty at 687-2681 or pginnetty@sjcny.edu with questions
and/or to reserve a place.
The Fatherhood Initiative
is a program for Suffolk County fathers/step fathers and father figures who want to improve communication
among themselves, their children and their partners. In addition to communication skills, the 4-week program
offers case management, job readiness skills, transportation. THE FATHERHOOD INITIATIVE can be presented in English or Spanish. This is made possible by a federal grant administered by The Retreat Inc., a
well respected social service agency on the East End. All meetings are held at East End venues in the evening so that fathers can come more easily. FOR MORE INFORMATION CALL Nancy or Fred at 631-7618518.
Do you have a business or skill that can help SHJM?
Do you have a business or skill that could possibly be of assistance to our parish. We have all
kinds of needs from building, painting, electrical, masonry, cleaning, and so on. If you would like
to put your gifts at the service of our community please give Fr. Mike a call or email—
pastor@shjmbasilica.org
Be the first to find out what is happening at SHJM
Visit our Website
www.shjmbasilica.org
Parish and Community Life
Auditions/rehearsals will be on May 7,8, & 9th. The show will be open on
May 11th at 5 PM. All interested acts should contact Jacqueline Hawkins,
at jhawkins@southamptonschools.org or call her at 631-235-5697.
Bread, Wine & Candles
The Altar bread, wine and candles for this weekend were
given in loving memory of Jacques Bodeau and in honor of
Divine Mercy Sunday by Jacques’ wife, Yvonne.
Some Opportunity for Prayer and Study
FRANCISCANS
The Secular Franciscans meet on the third Sunday of the month, after the 11 AM Mass in the Parish Center.
Would you like to know what we are all about? Please come to our meeting. Bring a bag lunch and we will
supply the coffee.
Bible Study Group meets on Tuesdays at 1 PM in the upper meeting room of the Parish Center. All are
welcome!
SPIRITUAL BOOK GROUP
The Spiritual Book Group has resumed . Meetings are Tuesdays at 1 PM in Room 1 of the Parish
Center. New members are always welcome.
“Jesus waits for us in this sacrament of love.” Pope John Paul II
Please join us in an hour of
Eucharistic Adoration
Each Friday directly following the noon Mass
12:30-1:30 PM
“Come to Me all of you who are weary and find life
burdensome and I will refresh you…” “Cast all your
anxieties upon the One who cares for you…”
“My peace is my gift to you…” (Mt 11:28; 5:7, Jn
14:17)
We pray for the sick of our Parish and Community
Winnie Chin
John Bishop
Robert O’Shea
Suzanne Parillo
Jean Kearns
Gwendolyn Porter
John Cuccia, Sr.
Eileen Finlay
Roger Williams
Robert Melter
Daniel Sheerin
Stan Witkowski
Anne O’Brien
Anna Norsic
Susan McLane Gioscia
Filomena Marciw
Stephanie Golio
Jeanne Krajewski
Prayer and Spirituality
BIBLE STUDY
Campus Ministry - Building a Community of Faith, Service and
Friendship
Catholic Ministries Appeal
As students begin college, spirits are high. They are eager to take classes
in their major, excited to invest themselves in worthy causes, and ready
to take on the challenges of leadership. But as they grow in these areas,
they may still experience hardships – confusing new relationships,
homesickness, struggles with studies – and they
may realize that while they packed all their favorite music and dorm items, they left their Bible and
faith life at home. When this happens, the Catholic Campus Ministry of the Diocese of Rockville
Centre steps in and serves over 50,000 students on Long Island; so their hearts, minds, and souls
can be developed during the critical years of their formation.
One Catholic Campus Minister explains, “My goals as a
campus minister are to continue to evangelize, to reach
more students on campus, and to bring the Gospel
message in a way that engages them, [so] that they can
understand that while they’re studying, they’re on the
road to Heaven. The goal in life is to become a
professional in whatever capacity, but also to go to
Heaven.”
Without Campus Ministry, there would be a huge gap in the faith lives of the college students on
Long Island.
When you support the Catholic Ministries Appeal, you support the faith lives of hundreds of
students at secular universities across our Long Island community.
OUR LADY OF THE HAMPTONS
The school community of Our Lady of the Hamptons wished our parishioners a very
blessed and happy Easter! The administration, faculty, parents and student body are
deeply grateful for the support and prayers of Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary Parish!
In celebration of the completion of the gymnasium space of the new Wellness Center at
the school, we are inviting members of the parish to visit the school at any time during the school day
to see the magnificent new facility at our Catholic school! The sports and physical education of the
students will be greatly enhanced by this addition. The school is also interested in sharing its plans for
the completion of the classroom wing and renovations to the existing building with everyone willing
to share our plans for East End Catholic education. Simply ring the front bell and be welcomed into the
future!
Tickets are still available for the Ladies Luncheon and Chinese Auction to be held help at the
Southampton Social Club on Elm Street on Sunday, April 21. Call 631-283-9140 and come for the
first Garden Party of the year!
RELIGIOUS EDUCATION
CONFIRMATION DATE: MAY 9, 2013 4:30 PM
Bishop Nelson Perez
PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU ARE REGISTERED AT SACRED HEARTS OF JESUS AND MARY. REGISTRATION
FORMS ARE AVAILABLE BY CALLING THE PARISH OFFICE AT 283-0097.
Parents of children who will be entering first grade in September: If your child is entering the
first grade and you want him/her to receive the sacraments in the parish, it is time to register
them for the Religious Education Program if they are not attending Our Lady of the Hamptons
or some other Catholic School.
Religious Education Registration forms are now available on the parish website:
www.shjmbasilica.org.
Please remember that children are required to attend each year from first to eighth grades, in
order to be prepared for the receiving of Confirmation in the eighth grade. Also attendance each
week is a must unless the child is sick or has a good reason for missing a class. Please
encourage the school and coaches not to schedule games or practices on Wednesday afternoon
or evening or Sunday mornings. It is up to all of us to encourage the importance of Religious
Education in our community.
Please check the website for meetings and announcements. For more information please call
the Religious Education office at 631-283-0508. or email: bassuntarsm@gmail.com
EDUCATION
Your Table is Waiting... — Senior Citizens’ Day is April 19th,. There will be a
luncheon, prizes, and music. Doors open at 11 AM, lunch served at 11:30 AM.
Transportation is available from Bishop Ryan Village. This is our gift to our seniors.
RSVP—283-9140.
Bakers Needed
Do you like to bake? Would you like to help by baking for our lecture series receptions? If so,
please call Pam at 516-445-2669 to be put on the calling list.
Come Sing With Us
Do you love to sing? Would you like to learn how to sing? Come Join us!
Young Peoples Choir
Ministries — We need you!
We sing each week at the 9:30 family mass and at special masses and services
for young people. We always need singers and musicians and if you are in
elementary school or high school we are happy to have you!
Basilica Choir
We sing each week at the 11 AM mass and at special masses throughout the
year.
Basilica Cantors
We are leaders of song at mass both with and without a choir.
I would like more information about the young peoples choir__
I would like to join the Basilica Choir __
I am interested in learning about being a leader of song ___
I am a musician. I play the _________________ and am happy to help where needed.
You can tear this form off and either send it to the rectory, or give it to Jo Ann Morse our director
of Music, or simply email her at jmorse627@optonline.net, or text 631-807-7607
Name __________________________ Phone or Email ________________________________
Basilica Sextons
Are you one of the first to arrive for mass in the morning? Do you regularly attend the 5 PM on Saturday or Sunday? If
so you may be able to help us as a Sexton — a person entrusted to opening the church before mass or closing it at the
end of they day. Contact Fr. Mike if you are interested in helping in this way. pastor@shjmbasilica.org.
Name_________________________________ Phone or email_______________________________________
Altar Servers
We are in need of many new altar servers for our parish. Our altar servers are grade school and
high school students who are willing to serve at weekend masses, funeral masses, and weddings.
Name________________________________ Phone or Email __________________________
Please return to or call Mary Adamczyk 283-4991 or email hmmkadam@optonline.net
La Obligación Pascual - Todos los católicos ya iniciados en la Sagrada Eucaristía tienen la obligación de
recibir la Sagrada Comunión por lo menos una vez durante la temporada Pascual. Sin embargo, “Quien tiene
pecado grave debe recibir el Sacramento de la Reconciliación antes de comulgar.” (CCE, §1385)
Celebren el 5 de Mayo El domingo, el 5 de mayo de las
5 - 9 de la tarde en el Salón de la Iglesia en Hampton
Bays habrá a una gran Kermés. Todos están invitados.
Vengan, disfruten, y cooperen.
II Domingo de Pascua, Año C. Ilustración © 1997 T. Butler. Printed from www.Liturgy.com
reservados.
La Fe - La alegría de la Pascua se traduce hoy en fe
pascual. Con la historia de Tomás, quien dudó el anuncio
de los otros discípulos de que Jesús vivía, descubrimos
que la fe no se basa en manifestaciones sensibles, pero sí
se transforma en servicio, como muestra la narración de
la primera lectura cuando describe a la primera
comunidad de creyentes. La alegría pascual nos debe
llevar a una acción que brote de nuestra fe en el Señor
Resucitado. By Juan J. Sosa, Pbro., from Liturgia y Canción 2013 © 2012, OCP.
Curso Pre-Bautismal
Domingo, 28 de abril, a la 1:30 PM en el Apostolado
Hispano o a las 5 PM en la iglesia en East Hampton
Favor de llevar la copia del acta de nacimiento del niño.
Bautizos en Southampton serán el 7 de abril, el 5 de mayo, el 2 de junio, el 7 de julio y el 4 de agosto.
El Asesor de Inmigración de Caridades Católicas
En el Apostolado el jueves, 11 de abril de las 2–5 PM
Confirmación en Español – sábado, 25 de mayo, a las
12:00 de mediodía.
Primeras Comuniones – el sábado, 1 de junio, a las
11:30 AM.
Comunidad de Oración para Adultos y Familias
Los martes a las 7:30 PM en la el salón parroquial. El
tercer martes de cada mes se reúne en la iglesia para la
hora santa.
Horas de Oficina en el Apostolado Hispano
Martes, miércoles, jueves y viernes de las 2-4 PM.
All rights reserved
Ministerio de Teatro:
Los viernes a las 7:00 PM en el salón parroquial.
Taller de Ministerios - Habrá un taller para los ministros de la
liturgia el sábado, 13 de abril, de las 9:00 AM a las 2:00 PM en
Mercy High School en Riverhead. Ministros de la Comunión
deben recordar que tienen que asistir al taller cada tres años. Si
usted quiere servir en un ministerio hable con Padre Hugo.
Requisitos para el Bautismo de un Niño
Curso: Para bautizar a su hijo, es necesario que los
padres y padrinos asistan al curso pre-bautismal. Traiga
consigo el acto de nacimiento del niño.
Padrinos: Debe escoger a los padrinos conscientes de los
requisitos. Los padrinos tienen que haber recibido sus
tres sacramentos de iniciación (Bautismo, Primera
Comunión y confirmación) y deben poder comulgar, es
decir no deben estar viviendo en unión libre o casados
por civil nada más, El padrino (madrina) debe ser un(a)
soltero(a) o debe ser casado por la iglesia.
Permisos: Si viven afuera de la zona servida por el
Apostolado Hispano, necesitan una carta de su párroco
dándonos permiso para bautizar su hijo.
Incrédulo - ¿Eres una persona incrédula? ¿Tienes que
tener prueba concreta para todo antes de creer en algo? A
los que no creen en lo que no pueden ver se les dice:
"Incrédulos" o "Eres como santo Tomás". Puesto que
vivimos en un mundo saturado por imágenes visuales y
sonidos de todo tipo, es difícil emplear nuestra
imaginación y mantener las creencias que nacen del
espíritu y se nutren del espíritu, aunque nuestra mente no
tenga ninguna imagen visual. Sin ver al Señor resucitado
en la carne, el signo de su resurrección es vivir la
sanación. Cristo nos sana hoy, y así sentimos su presencia
y su misericordia. By María Dolores Martínez, from Liturgia y Canción 2010,
© 2009, OCP. All rights reserved.
Padre Esteban: Cel: 631-375-1001; Fax: 631-2870986
Apostolado Hispano: 631-283-4379
APOSTOLADO HISPANO
Alfa y Omega- El incrédulo Tomás toca al Señor resucitado.
Jesús le dice: “Tú crees porque me has visto; dichosos los que
creen sin haber visto”. ¡Nosotros somos los dichosos porque
creemos sin tener que ver! Jesús continúa su obra a través de
Pedro, los otros apóstoles y la Iglesia. Estos son los testigos de
las cosas milagrosas que no están escritas “en el libro”, de la
obra del que vive, del Primero y el Último, del que tiene las
llaves de la muerte y de los infiernos. En verdad, ¡Cristo
resucitó! Texto: Philip J. Sandstrom, STD © 1998, OCP. Derechos
Rincón de Información
KID’S PAGE Second Sunday of Easter
April 7, 2013