Twenty-second Sunday in Ordinary time September 1, 2013 Every one who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted The Basilica Parish of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary Southampton, NY Welcome to the Basilica Parish of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary Daily Mass Mon. Wed. Thurs. Fri. at 12 noon Tue. at 8:00 am First Saturday 8:00 am Weekend Masses Saturday: 5 PM Sunday: 8 AM, 9:30 AM, 11 AM, 12:30 PM (in Spanish) and 5 PM Reconciliation Saturday: 4 PM - 4:45 PM Ministry to the Sick For communion at home or Anointing please contact the Parish Office. Baptism Please contact the Parish Office to schedule an appointment. Marriage Arranged at least six months in advance, please call the Parish Office. Pastoral Team: Rev. Michael A. Vetrano, Pastor In Residence: Rev. Msgr. William J. Gill John Moran, Deacon Carl Sanfilippo, Deacon Jennifer Ferrantino, Director, Religious Education Suzanne Marchisella, Parish & Cemetery Secretary Jo Ann Morse, Director of Music Bill Kunzer, Plant and Facilities Manager Parish Leadership: Contact Us Finance Committee Fred Weinfurt (trustee) Pat Jordan (trustee) Jay Diesing John Neknez Parish Office 168 Hill Street Southampton, NY Pastoral Council In formation Liturgy Jack Hanlon Consolation Sr. Barbara McKenna, RSM Adult Faith Formation Jennifer Ferrantino Becoming A Catholic We welcome those who would like to become Catholic and adult Catholics who have never received formal religious education and/or sacraments. Contact the Parish Office. Human Resources of the Hamptons — Help for those in Need The Human Resources Program volunteers reach out to meet the temporal needs of the elderly, the housebound, and the poor of our parish and community. Our parish Care for the Caregiver Program delivers hot meals to families in need of this kind of help on Wednesday evenings. Call the Human Resources Office for information and assistance. P: 631-283-0097, option 0 F: 631-283-3836 W: www.shjmbasilica.org E: parishoffice@shjmbasilica.org M-F 9 AM - 4:30 PM Weekend by appointment Fr. Mike Vetrano E: pastor@shjmbasilica.org Religious Education Office P: 631-283-0508 E: jferrantino@shjmbasilica.org Our Lady of Hamptons School Sister Kathy Schlueter, CSJ 160 North Main Street Southampton, New York 11968 P: 631-283-9140 E: olh@hamptons.com Human Resources of the Hamptons Maryann Tupper, Director P: 631-283-6415 E: maryanntupper.hrp@hamptons.com Apostolado Hispano Rev. Steve Grozio 631-283-4379 Cell: 631-375-1001 Vincentian Fathers 631-283-9647 BASILICA PARISH OF SACRED HEARTS OF JESUS & MARY Twenty-second Sunday in Ordinary Time :: September 1, 2013 Readings: Sir 3:17-18, 20, 28-29; Heb 12: 18-19, 22-24a; Lk 14 1, 7-14 Mission Statement: We are a Eucharistic centered people, who by following Christ’s teaching, join together to love and serve those in spiritual and physical need in our community. Liturgical Ministers Schedule Saturday, Sept 7 5 PM Father Gill SERVERS C & L Yastrzemski E.M.’S T. Cavallaro, A. Fiore, M. Lynch LECTORS H. Reister, S. Wilson Sunday, Sept 8 8 AM Father Ed Kiernan SERVERS Lenahan Family E.M.’S K. Duggan, D. Gilmartin, M. King, L. McClain, J. Taranto LECTORS K. King-Bush, M. Mackey GREETERS K. Moffa SERVERS E.M.’S LECTORS GREETERS 9:30 AM Father Mike Vetrano L. Arresta, V. Ching-Roa, M. Terry, O. Valle T. Alegria, G. Arresta, A. Lesta, M. McDonald, Sr. B. McKenna J. Kepczynska, C. Muller J. McCulley LECTORS GREETERS 11 AM Father Mike Vetrano M & W Bellucci S. Adelante, G. Bauer, J. Cleary, P. Jordan, S. McCulley J. Hanlon, P. Jordan C. Brown, C. Butler SERVERS E.M.’S LECTORS 5 PM Father Gill A. O’Brien, H. Reyes J. Costa, G. Reisig S. O’Brien, K. Rossi SERVERS E.M.’S ALTAR MINISTRY ALTARS: — September, M. Nugent, M. McLane ALTAR CLOTHS: G. Bauer HAND LINENS - September 2-15—K. Ciriello SOUTHAMPTON HOSPITAL September 1—D. Podlaski September 8—J. McCarthy HAMPTON CENTER September 1—S. Raynor September 6—Sr. Barbara, Sr. Assunta—Mass September 8—D. Dwyer, A. Beatty Rosary—September 5—B. Medler The Parish office will be closed on September 2nd for Labor Day. Mass Intentions for the Week of September 2-8 Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday 12:00 8:00 12:00 12:00 Friday Saturday Sunday 12:00 5 PM 8:00 9:30 11:00 12:30 5 PM Mary Lyons Ral Welker Sr. Joanne M. Ward, SC Living & Deceased members of the Donohue & Hogan Families Thomas A. Wagner Ruth G. Lynch (L) Sr. Rose Taranto People of the Parish Mary Ellen Welsh, Bessie Croke, Dennis P. O’Connor Mass in Spanish Mary Ellen Welsh Memorial donations To donate the flowers on the altar or bread and wine and/ or candles offered at Mass each week, please contact the parish office. Financial Realities and Stewardship The August 25th collection was $11,062. Thank you for your generosity! Pastor’s Letter A Celebration of Life! August 31/ September 1 Dear Parish Family, Last summer one of the first groups to come and speak with me about the life of Sacred Hearts was Mary Steinbrecher, Pat Corrigan, and Joan Heinz. They were excited about the possibility of renewing a wonderful tradition at Sacred Hearts — the annual end of summer party. That event comes to reality this weekend through their faith and generous work. At the time of our initial discussion, Mary was doing very well in her battle against cancer and she was full of energy and life. I could sense in her a depth of faith and wonderful passion for life and for seeing our church community come alive. Just a couple of months later her disease progressed and she passed from us on October 30, 2012. I visited her at home the week before and we had a chance to talk and pray. As a priest, I have had many conversations with those who are sick and those near to dying and I always find their faith and hope inspiring. But Mary was special. She was at peace but she was clearly unhappy that this life, this wonderful life, was coming to a close for her. She wanted to see this event. She wanted more of the love and life of her family. She wanted to be a part of everything that was happening in this church, in this community, and in her family. She was clearly in love with life. Her life was truly a celebration of life itself. As we remember her this weekend, we honor both her generous work and her spirit. She is literally one of those who built this community. Mary lived here all her life, attended Sacred Hearts School, and celebrated all the important events of her life in this community. She wanted the best for her parish and for her community, and she lived and worked to make that happen. Her spirit of love for life is very much alive in the minds and hearts of all those who gather here this weekend. Life is an amazing gift. It needs to be celebrated, embraced, and loved. We do that when we build bridges of love and friendship among all the members of all our communities. Life is too short to dwell on the things that divide us. We need to be grateful, especially for one another. Thank you, Mary, for being our inspiration. May this weekend be A Celebration of Life! Sincerely yours in Christ, Rev. Michael A. Vetrano A Note from Religious Education Director: Jennifer Ferrantino Like many of you, we in the Religious Education Office are getting ready for September. We offer classes Sunday mornings immediately following the 9:30 AM Family Mass for grades 1 – 8; Wednesday afternoons at 3:50 – 5 PM for grades 1 – 6; and Wednesday evenings from 7 – 8 PM for grades 7 and 8. Classes begin Sunday, September 22, 2013, and Wednesday, September 25, 2013. Registration forms are available on our newly constructed web page Sacred Hearts Religious Education. Please return your registration forms and payment before September 1, 2013. www.shjmbasilica.org NEED HELP! As we finalize our classes for the year we are still in need of a First Grade Teacher on Sundays and a Third Grade Teacher on Wednesdays. Your help is much appreciated! Do Your Want to Become a Catholic? RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults) Weekly meetings to discuss the Catholic faith beginning with an “inquiry” phase to answer questions and explore some of the teachings of the Church. Becoming a Catholic is not a class, but rather a process. We are all on a faith journey throughout our lives… we recognize that every path is different!! Those needing to complete the sacraments of Confirmation and Eucharist are invited to attend. If you are interested, please call the Parish Office at 631-283-0097 Ext. 0 Religious Education Calling All First Grade Parents and New or Returning Participants: To begin our wonderful journey of faith formation or rejoin please contact the Religious Education Office. Our registration forms are available on our web page under First Time Registration and Registration Form 2013-2014. The Annual Summer Party under the Tent Returns! August 31st You and your friends are invited to a Celebration of Life In remembrance of Mary Steinbrecher Evening Cocktail Party 6:30 PM—8:30 PM Rain or Shine Upcoming Events Dancing to the Music of Doug Dwyer Catering by 230 Elm s icket sale T e n l f o f e a R will b CKS s t U e B k BIG e tic h t our. f h o t eft! l t s s 1 w a l e e f The for th nly a . More y O t r ! a t w s P ng fa t yours no i at the o g ts are t out—ge to win! e d in k c i f T se s an s s e a l e M e c b n the 5. Don’t , more cha de Church after —631-283-378 s rn tsi Motte old ou prize harlie eing s Tickets are $40 at the door. Honoring Mary Steinbrecher, long time parishioner, who cherished her church. Mary was co-chair of this event for many years. Before her passing, she met with Father Mike and began the process of once again making this a yearly event! b tC t s ar e contac r o Ticke e c i ff rish O the Pa Be the first to find out what is happening at SHJM Visit our Website www.shjmbasilica.org April 21 to 30, 2014 Join our Pastor Fr. Mike on journey of faith: Lourdes and the Shrines of the Sacred Heart I would like to invite you all to consider joining me on a journey to France! Our pilgrimage will visit some of the most celebrated spiritual places in our Catholic faith. If you are interested in being part of this pilgrimage I will be holding an information night on Monday, September 9, at 7 PM in the rectory. You may view and download a full itinerary and information sheet on our website: www.shjmbasilica.org In celebration of the Year of Faith, the Diocese of Rockville Centre offers this Pilgrimage to the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception Please save the date and join us, together with faithful from all across our diocese, on Saturday, September 28, 2013 for a day-long experience filled with opportunities for Bus departs Sacred Hearts Basilica Parking lot at 6 AM Contact Gina Arresta: 631-287-3122 Pilgrimage Opportunities Lourdes: Our journey will begin in Lourdes where we will visit the site of the appearance of Mary to Saint Bernadette. We will have time to join in the evening candlelight processions, visit the church of Bernadette's baptism and home of her birth, and of course many opportunities for prayer and to visit the healing waters of Lourdes. Paris: What would a trip to France be without some time in Paris! We will visit places both famous and spiritual: The Eiffel tower, Basilica of the Sacred Heart, and Shrine to the Immaculate Conception. Lisieux: From Paris we will take a day excursion to the birthplace and church of St. Therese Paray-Le-Monial: Included in our journey will be a overnight in this beautiful mountain town — the place of the revelation of the Sacred Heart to St. Margaret Mary Alacoque. Parish Events A little SHJM History — The year is 1961-1962 at Sacred Heart School — can you name the coach or any of the players? Answers on our website! Ministry of Praise for Life comes to SHJM This fall we are beginning a ministry of praise for life. A ministry of praise is made up of parishioners who agree to set aside some time each day to pray for an important cause. Here at SHJM our ministry of praise will be dedicated to the many issues that our Church calls life issues. Life issues that affect the humanity and dignity of every person but most especially those that Pope Francis speaks of as being on the margins of our society: the unborn, the very old, the poor, those in struggling families, those in prison. It is a wonderful ministry for people who are homebound and wish to use their time to pray for others but it is a wonderful ministry for any person who can devote a few minutes a day to prayer. We will be holding an enrollment for our ministry of praise members and each member will receive a prayer book to use each day. If you are interested in joining this ministry, please send your information to the parish office so we can contact you: Ministry of Praise, Sacred Hearts Basilica, 168 Hill Street, Southampton, NY 11968 Tear off here …………………………………………………………………………….. Yes, I am interested in joining the Ministry of Praise Name: Address: Telephone: Email: Visitors: Become a Friend of the Basilica At Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary we are happy to welcome people from around the world who visit our community and enjoy the beauty and relaxation of this special place. We would love to count you among our friends and keep you up to date on all that is happening here. Please consider becoming a friend of the Basilica! Just fill out the form below and send it to our parish office. 168 Hill Street, Southampton NY 11968 Yes I would like to become a Friend of the Basilica. Name: ______________________________ Home Address: ______________________ Home City : _________________________ State: ______________________ Postal Code: _________________________ Country: ___________________ Email Address: ______________________ Phone: _____________________ Family Members; _____________________________ _________________________________________________ Name Birthdate Relationship _____________________________ _________________________________________________ Name Birthdate Relationship _____________________________ _________________________________________________ Name Birthdate Relationship Check the one that best describes you: __ A regular summer resident ___ I vacation here for a short time each summer __ Just visiting Is there any special way we can help you? ___ Send me emails of special events ___ Keep me on your mailing list ___ Include me in your voice / phone messages ___ I would like to become a member of the parish_____________ Visitors Page _____________________________ _________________________________________________ Name Birthdate Relationship Thank You One and All It had been a great summer and we thank all of those who worked together to bring us the wonderful events we have enjoyed week by week. And so a special thanks to: Summer at SHJM Jay Diesing, Charlene Kagel, and JoAnn Morse for planning our summer concert series. Pat Corrigan, Joan Heinz, Charlie and Jean Mottern for planning our tent party. The volunteers who sold super raffle tickets each week. Bill Kunzer and Jose Hernandez for setting up each week. Beau Hulse for being our Frank Sinatra. The Buonaspina family, Ashley Bell, The Southampton Arts Festival and Tom Humbert for their beautiful performances. Our Sponsors: La Parmigiana, Sip and Soda, East End Accounting, UBS Financial Services, Goldman Sachs, Jay Diesing and Charlene Kagel for providing hospitality each week. Members of Adult Faith Formation for providing hospitality each week especially: Kathy Malfitani, Kathy Jordan, Donna Salm and Joe Taranto. . Marty Rogers, Ed Callaghan, John Wegorzewski, and Michael Mackey for helping us publicize all our events. Tours of our Basilica Both regular parishioners and visitors will want to take advantage of our weekly Basilica tours. A short tour of our beautiful church is held each Sunday in the summer after the 9:30 AM Mass. We are also happy to arrange a special tour for any group. Just call the rectory. Hope House Annual Bike Tour Fundraiser “In honor of Hope House Ministries, Fr. Francis Pizzarelli, SMM, and the entire Hope House Ministries family, we are proud to extend to you a very special invitation to our . 14th Annual Montauk We Hope Bike Tour Saturday, September 7 — 7:00 a.m. Contact: TRITEC (631) 751-0300 Piano Accompanists SHJM Music Ministry is looking for skilled adult piano players to share their time and talent with our faith community. Summer is a wonderful time to learn music and work with our current team of dedicated and accomplished pianists. To learn more about this ministry, please call JoAnn Morse at 2834583. Main Altar flowers Were given in loving memory of August A. Petrillo by his wife, Irene. Blessed Mother’s Altar flowers We pray for the sick of our Parish and Community Winnie Chin John Bishop Robert O’Shea Suzanne Parillo Jean Kearns Gwendolyn Porter John Cuccia, Sr. Eileen Finlay Roger Williams Robert Melter Daniel Sheerin Stan Witkowski Anne O’Brien Anna Norsic Filomena Marciw Stephanie Golio Emil Norsic J T Welker Khristina Muller Marcelle Enne Peg Jordan Rev. Eugene McGovern Dr. Dominic Sacco Aubrie Press Rodecker Bruce Peterson Prayer and Spirituality Beginning at TRITEC Real Estate, East Setauket Adult Faith Formation :: September 23 at 7 PM Faith and Health Care Decisions What every Catholic needs to know Faith Formation and Adult Education Fr. Mike Vetrano Modern medicine is both wonderful and frighteningly complicated. Just 50 years ago people were born and people died without much to consider or decide about. Today things are different. Many have already faced difficult health care decisions for family members. We wonder who will decide things for us if we cannot make our own decisions. Many wonder what a person of faith should think about life support, artificial nutrition, organ donation, and the care of the seriously ill. This evening will explore the changes in medicine and the development of Catholic medical ethics. This will be a practical evening, giving you the information you need to prepare for these decisions. It will also be spiritual since the way we face these issues if often a profound encounter with our faith, trust, and belief. Career Planning Strategies Workshop — September 21 Have you considered changing your career or job or finding a new direction in your life? Have you been adversely affected by the declining job market and are seeking new employment? If you have recently been displaced from a position, you know how difficult it can be to find new work. Going on an interview can be stressful and sometimes terrifying. The landscape is competitive and changing quickly. Social media can affect your job search. This full day workshop will show you how to confidently plan, organize and succeed in your job search in a supportive environment. The program will meet on Saturday, September 21, 2013 from 9:00am-4:00pm at The Basilica Parish of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus & Mary Parish Center. Career Planning Strategies Agenda Getting started: creating an action plan and portfolio of accomplishments Resume writing: learn to write an effective resume and other important preparation How to brand yourself: the power of being different Job search strategies: finding a job is a full time job The program will be facilitated by Dr. Deborah B. Sorgi and Robert V. Barcia. Dr. Sorgi is a sales, marketing, and operations executive with general management and global experience in educational publishing. She is an adjunct professor, faculty mentor and in-service facilitator for an online university where she teaches Strategies for Success and Career Development. Mr. Barcia is a communications strategist with 10+ years of experience in social media, public relations, marketing, team development and brand messaging in health and educational publishing. Career development is an ongoing process. Indicate your interest today and get one step closer to personal and professional fulfillment. Youth parishioners are invited to attend too! Call or Email Father Mike and tell him to reserve a spot just for you! Seating is limited. Please RSVP by Friday, September 13th at pastor@shjmbasilica.org or 631-283-0097 x311. Bring your own lunch! Clases de Inglés - Inscripciones para las clases de inglés de BOCES se llevarán a cabo lunes martes y miércoles, 9, 10 y 11 de septiembre, de las 9 AM a la 1 PM en el Centro Parroquial; y de las 5 a 9 PM en el Middle School, avenida Ponquogue. La inscripción vale $25, solo en money orden. Inscripción para Clases de Catecismo para Niños - Cada domingo después de la Misa en el Apostolado Hispano. .XXII Domingo del Tiempo Ordinario. Año C. Ilustración © 2001 K. Sullivan. Printed from www.Liturgy.com Philip J. Sandstrom, STD © 2001, OCP. Derechos reservados Enriquecidos por Aquel - Las lecturas de hoy apuntan directamente a la forma en que nos relacionamos con Dios. En la medida en que hagamos a un lado la envidia, el rencor y la maldad para hacernos vulnerables a la fuerza de Dios, seremos enriquecidos por Aquel que nos ama. By Juan J. Sosa, Pbro., from Liturgia y Canción Rincón de Información Curso Pre-Bautismal Domingo, 29 de sept., a la 1:30 PM en el Apostolado o las 5 PM en la iglesia en East Hampton Favor de llevar la copia del acta de nacimiento del niño. Bautizos en Southampton serán el 1º de septiembre, el 6 de oct. y el 3 de noviembre. Preparación Pre Matrimonial – Para casarse por la iglesia, haga una cita para una entrevista con el Padre Hugo o el Padre Esteban. El curso pre-matrimonial se da por seis domingos, de las 9 AM al mediodía y comienza el primer domingo de junio, octubre o feb. Proclamas Matrimoniales – Tercera Noticia Antonio González y Natali Bahena Jeffry Madriz y Maria de Jesús Palma Pablo Ortega y Pamela Pescatore El Asesor de Inmigración de Caridades Católicas En el Apostolado Hispano, el jueves, 12 de septiembre de La Virgen del Cisne - Todos están cordialmente las 2:00 – 5:00 PM invitados a la Celebración de La Virgen del Cisne el 13, 14 y 15 de septiembre en la Parroquia de Santa Comunidad de Oración para Adultos y Familias Teresita en Montauk. Habrá la procesión/caminata el Los martes a las 7:30 PM en la el salón parroquial. El viernes a la medianoche, el rosario a las 7:00 PM el tercer martes de cada mes se reúne en la iglesia para la sábado y la procesión al campo deportivo para la Misa hora santa. y convivencia el domingo. Divina Misericordia - Misa en la Basílica cada cuarto Encuentro de Culturas – Le queremos invitar al miércoles a las 8:00 PM. Encuentro de Culturas en Hampton Bays el sábado, 5 de octubre de 6:00 a 10:00 PM en el Centro Requisitos para el Bautismo de un Niño Comunitario. El Encuentro de Culturas es una Curso: Para bautizar a su hijo, es necesario que los padres celebración para toda la familia con el propósito de y padrinos asistan al curso pre-bautismal. Traiga consigo celebrar nuestra cultura latina en el mes de la el acto de nacimiento del niño. Hispanidad y además de recaudar fondos para los Padrinos: Debe escoger a los padrinos conscientes de los servicios y ministerios del Apostolado Hispano. Habrá requisitos. Los padrinos tienen que haber recibido sus música, mucha comida, bailes y muchas actividades tres sacramentos de iniciación (Bautismo, Primera para toda la familia. ¡Vengan a celebrar! El 20 de Comunión y confirmación) y deben poder comulgar, es decir no deben estar viviendo en unión libre o casados por octubre habrá otro Encuentro en East Hampton. civil nada más, El padrino (madrina) debe ser un(a) Sacramentos para Adultos - La clase de Confirmación soltero(a) o debe ser casado por la iglesia. o Comunión o Bautismo para adultos comenzará el Permisos: Si viven afuera de la zona servida por el miércoles, 11 de septiembre en al Apostolado Hispano Apostolado Hispano, necesitan una carta de su párroco en Southampton o el jueves, 12 de septiembre en la dándonos permiso para bautizar su hijo. Padre Esteban: Cel: 631-375-1001; Fax: 631-287-0986 escuelita en East Hampton Apostolado Hispano: 631-283-4379 2013 © 2012, OCP. All rights reserved APOSTOLADO HISPANO Humildad - Hoy Jesús nos enseña cómo venir a su Banquete de Bodas celestial, no apretándose en los asientos de enfrente, sino buscando el último lugar. La humildad es un trabajo de toda la vida, es la confianza de ser “uno mismo”. Ésta es una estrategia que, si se practica, permite que cada cual encuentre su sitio ante Dios. El propio Jesús lo hizo en la Última Cena, al hacer el trabajo de un esclavo: lavó los pies de sus Apóstoles. “El hombre prudente medita en su corazón las sentencias de los otros, y su gran anhelo es saber escuchar”. Y tú, ¿estás escuchando al Señor hoy? Texto: September 1, 2013 Twenty-second Sunday in Ordinary Time Kid’s Page Sharing the Gospel Most of the guests at a wedding party are crowding around the bride and groom. When the bride sees you sitting outside, she says, "Come inside and drink some punch." God will have a big feast at the end of the world. When he sees you standing outside the gates of heaven, he will put his arm around you and say, "Come right on in, my child. I've been waiting for you." Prayer Lord, thank you for finding me when others leave me out. Something to Draw Draw God walking into heaven with his arm around you. Mission for the Week I will take a glass of water and a cookie to my parents.